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gentlemanly heretic

I have been an atheist since age 13, after catholic confirmation I somehow started to think for myself! Growing up among hard-shell dogmatists, I was the communitys' black sheep and the "goin' to hell godless heretic"! Now I no longer have any theist friends and I am glad to find a site where I might meet someone who can share a history of resistance to beliefs and believers!

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageHungarian
Height173 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorGrey
Hair LengthNeck length
Facial HairGoatee
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionDepression
My AttractivenessAverage


Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyMedical / Health
Employment StatusRetired
Annual incomeSeeking support
Job Titleretired lay-about

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Documentaries, Dramas, Movies, Sports, Science fiction
Favorite TV showsBBC (Dr. Who; Wire in the Blood; Whitechapel) Criminal Minds, Justified and Person of Interest.
Favorite movies typesScience fiction, Comedy, Drama, Documentary, Animation, Thriller, Adult
Favorite movies2001:A Space Odyssey; The Shining; Paths of Glory (recognize the Kubrick fan in me?), most Hitchcock and so many new indie directors with great new ideas and talents!
Music typesCountry, Rap, Rock, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Latin, Soul, Reggae, Gospel, Folk, Punk
Favorite artistsIce-T, Common, George Clinton and Curtis Blow for early rap! The Pogues, John Prine, Nancy Griffith, Gram Parsons, Roy Orbinson, Johnny Cash and X and Black Flag for Americana/Cosmic-Cowboy, the Boss, Tom Petty and Madness for clever pop! and Hungarian an
Reading selectionAncient, Anthology, Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Horror, Humor, Instructional, Mystery, Nature, Philosophy, Political, Reference, Poetry, Religious, Satire, Science, Science fiction, Sports, Technical
Favorite booksThe Name of the Rose, by Umberto Eco; Darwins' Radio & Darwins' Children by Greg Bear and Fathers and Sons by Turgenev. Along with Jules Verne, H.G. Wells and Robert Heinlein for classical sci-fi.
Idea of fun1) sitting around watching Dr Who and working crosswords 2)going to a bar to hear and dance to a good blues band 3)floating a small S.E Missouri river in the snow! 4) camping in the early fall with crisp mornings and sunny days and bright starry nights; any, all! all at once! Numbering may change without prior notice!
HobbiesExercising, Reading, Learning, Music, TV, Movies, Internet, Dining, Religion, spirituality, Theater, Gardening, Camping, Fishing, Volunteering, Hunting


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorReserved
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Outcast
Sense of humorCampy
My great timeHanging out with friends, Partying, Staying at home, The movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading a book, TV, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to trysex in space, without gravity, floating and spinning and cartwheeling together would be outstanding! but then something would go wrong realistically. just a sci-fi fanboy fantasy


Political viewsAnarchist
Attend religious servicesNever
Goal in lifeTo continue to transcend daily difficulties by believing in and fighting for human beings. I am a proud secular humanist. So I place my faith in people, despite those who often demonstrate no sense of their natural humanity, and I can love people much more readily than an invisible old man in the sky!I am a pacifist yet I was a soldier during the cold war when I protected the Armys' nuclear arsenal from the West German populace. Yet, now I would still fight ferociously and lay down my life for my loved ones. I'm rambling, i am an Aspy, just so you know that. But i'll continue to update this block because these parts of life are always changing!

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Oddities, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerAn intelligent person is always more attractive to me than one who hasn't bothered to tried to learn about themselves, no body has to have a specific degree or standing but simply apply what you know with a secure imagination.
On the first dategoing in a club to hear a blues band, and drink a little beer, and get a little high, and dance until our feet go numb, and laugh our butts off through the whole time!